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Hey, I'm Coby.
Identity Rewire Specialist | Subconscious & Shadow Work Mentor
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Healing + Self-Love helped you cope.
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But you're still triggered, snapping, self-sabotaging and repeating the same patterns...Â
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You don’t need another affirmation.
You need Identity Work.
I SEE YOU:
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You’re exhausted from holding it all together - and even more exhausted from pretending you’re fine.
Your life looks full, but you feel empty.
You’ve healed, journaled, manifested… and you’re still snapping, spiraling and reacting from wounds you thought you’d outgrown.
You’re done with excuses.
Done with fluff.
Done with the same patterns on repeat.
You don’t want comfort - you want truth.
You don’t want more coping - you want change.
You don’t want another “healing phase” - you want your identity back.
Because beneath the overwhelm, the reactivity, the burnout and the pretending - you know you’re meant for more than this version of yourself.
You’re finally ready to stop avoiding the shadows, face your patterns head-on, and do the work that actually transforms you at the root.
I know this, because I was her.
And I know how to bring YOU back to YOU.
WELCOME—
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This is where the performing stops.
Where the healing loops end.
Where the patterns break, the noise drops, and the real work begins.
YOU is the space where you finally meet yourself again —
beyond the roles, the stress, the reactions, the survival mode,
beyond the identity you built to cope.
Here, we rewire the subconscious patterns running your life.
We face the shadows you’ve been avoiding.
We strip back the stories that never belonged to you.
We rebuild your identity from the inside out —
so you can show up as the woman you were always meant to be.
Not the version others needed you to be.
Not the version you performed to survive.
The real you.
This is YOU.
Your comeback.
And it starts right here.
Hey, I'm CobyÂ
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And, Identity is my jam. The way our brains wire us, the roles we play, the stories we tell ourselves—I live and breathe this work.
But I’m not just coming at you with theory.
I know what it’s like to build the life and lose yourself in the process. To tick the boxes, play the part, and still feel like a stranger in your own skin.
I’ve been her—the strong one, the capable one, the one who smiled while quietly fading.
What changed everything wasn’t another affirmation. It was nervous system work, subconscious rewiring, and the courage to finally ask: Who the f am I now?
Now, it’s the work I do every day. As a CTC Master Therapist certified in NLP, EFT, Hypnosis, Reiki, and Subconscious Rewiring, I blend these tools with raw truth-telling—so women like you can strip back the noise, release what’s been buried, and finally feel calm, clear, and fully themselves again.
Because this isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about unbecoming everything you’re not—so you can remember the woman you were always meant to be.
This is YOU.
Your comeback.
And it starts right here.
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...start with the only place that’s ever made sense - YOU.
YOU. The Course is your reset, your foundation, your comeback.
No fluff. No pretending. Just the real work that strips it back and brings you home to yourself.
This is where everything shifts.
YOU.
The Course
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Featuring “Hang On, Who the F Am I?” - the identity reset that starts your comeback.
You’ve built the life, played the roles, ticked the boxes
but somewhere along the way, you lost YOU.
This is where you get her back.
YOU. The Course isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about stripping back the noise, unbecoming everything you're not, rewiring the patterns that keep you stuck,
and remembering who you really are underneath it all.
We go deep -Â Identity-first healing. Nervous system recalibration. Subconscious rewiring.
So you can finally feel calm in your body, clear in your mind, and at home in your own life again.
YOU.
THE PODCAST with Coby Haskins
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YOU. The Podcast is built from the belief that life’s too short to feel disconnected—and too damn draining to keep pretending you’re fine.
Hosted by Coby Haskins—CTC Master Therapist, Identity Mentor, and truth-teller—this is the space where women who look like they’ve got it all together (but feel like they’re quietly falling apart inside) finally find the tools, stories, and space to come back to themselves.
It's where truth replaces fluff. It’s identity-first healing. Nervous system recalibration. Subconscious rewiring.
It’s the real work of unbecoming everything you’re not—so you can finally breathe and remember who you were always meant to be.
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How can you. 'Love You' or 'Be You'
if you don't know who you are anymore?
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Welcome to what can be your new world...
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