THIS IS YOUR COMEBACK.

 

 

 

Hey, I'm Coby.

Identity Rewire Specialist | Subconscious & Shadow Work Mentor

 

 

 

You’ve healed.

You’ve coped.

You’ve survived.

 

Now it’s time to actually change.

 

Because if you’re still triggered, snapping, spiralling and repeating the same patterns - you don’t need more healing.

You need identity work.

 

TAKE ME THERE!!!

I SEE YOU:

 

You’re exhausted from holding it all together - and even more exhausted from pretending you’re fine.

Your life looks full, but you feel empty.

You’ve healed, journaled, meditated… and you’re still snapping, spiralling, shutting down and reacting from wounds you thought you’d outgrown.

You’re done with excuses. Done with fluff. Done with the same patterns on repeat.

You don’t want comfort - you want truth.

You don’t want more coping - you want change.

You don’t want another “healing phase” - you want your identity back.

I know this woman because I was her. And I know how to bring YOU back to YOU.

Because deep under the overwhelm, the reactivity, the burnout and the pretending - you know you’re meant for more than this version of yourself.

You’re ready to stop avoiding the shadows, face your patterns head-on, and do the work that actually transforms you at the root.

This isn’t temporary relief. This is a complete internal reset. - your comeback.

WELCOME - WHAT THIS WORK FEELS LIKE

(The Truth You Need to Hear Before You Begin)

This work isn’t soft.

It isn’t comfortable.

And it’s not here to stroke your ego.

Identity work exposes you.

It calls you out.

It makes you meet the parts of yourself you’ve been avoiding - the patterns, the projections, the reactions, the shadows.

Some days you’ll want to quit.

But if you stay?

You won’t just feel better - you’ll become better.

Calmer.

Clearer.

More grounded.

More you.

This work changes you at the root. And once you shift at the identity level… everything else follows.

I'M READY

Hey, I'm Coby 

 

And, Identity is my Jam!!
The way our brains are wired, the roles we play, the stories we tell ourselves, the patterns we repeat—I live and breathe this work.

And I’m not here preaching theory.
I know exactly what it’s like to build the life, tick the boxes, be “the strong one”… and still feel like a stranger inside your own skin.

I’ve been the woman who held it all together on the outside while quietly falling apart on the inside.
Snapping. Spiralling. Shutting down. Performing a version of myself that didn’t feel like me.

I've done the the affirmation, the straight manifesting and all the “healing''. And, that made me feel better in the moment...but what really shifted everything was nervous system work. Subconscious rewiring. Shadow work with no place to hide.

Today, I’m a CTC Master Therapist certified in NLP, EFT, Hypnosis, Reiki and Subconscious Rewiring. I blend deep subconscious work with straight-up honesty so women like you can strip back the roles,
disarm the patterns running your life,
and finally feel calm, clear, grounded —
and you again.

Because this isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about unbecoming the identity you built to survive,
and remembering the woman you were always meant to be.

This is YOU.
Your comeback.
And it starts right here.

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Where to start? 

 

...start with the only place that’s ever made sense - YOU.

YOU. The Course is your reset, your foundation, your comeback.
No fluff. No pretending. Just the real work that strips it back and brings you home to yourself.

This is where everything shifts.

YOU.

The Project

 

Featuring the signature: Identity Rewire Method

YOUR Complete Identity Reconstruction Experience

For the Woman Who’s Done the Healing… and Ready to Actually Change.

You’ve built the life, played the roles, ticked every box
but somewhere along the way, you lost you.
The real you.
The grounded, clear, connected version you barely recognise anymore.

This is where you get her back.

YOU. The Project is an intensive identity rewire journey designed to pull you out of the patterns you’ve been running for years —
and rebuild you from the root.

This isn’t more healing.
This isn’t more coping.
This is the deep, confronting, identity-level work that finally sticks.

This is your comeback — and it starts now.

IT'S TIME, I'M READY!

YOU.

THE PODCAST with Coby Haskins

 

YOU. The Podcast is built from the belief that life’s too short to feel disconnected—and too damn draining to keep pretending you’re fine.

Hosted by Coby Haskins—CTC Master Therapist, Identity Mentor, and truth-teller—this is the space where women who look like they’ve got it all together (but feel like they’re quietly falling apart inside) finally find the tools, stories, and space to come back to themselves.

It's where truth replaces fluff. It’s identity-first healing. Nervous system recalibration. Subconscious rewiring.
It’s the real work of unbecoming everything you’re not—so you can finally breathe and remember who you were always meant to be.

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How can you. 'Love You' or 'Be You'

if you don't know who you are anymore?

 

- COBY HASKINS

Welcome to what can be your new world...

 

THIS IS WHAT I WANT!